Irish tenor Ronan Tynan is in trouble for making an “anti-Semitic” comment to a New York real estate agent:
The trouble began on Thursday when the 49-year-old Tynan bumped into a Halstead Property real estate agent showing an apartment on his floor to a potential buyer, a pediatrician from NYU Medical Center.
The real estate agent said to the tenor, famous for his association with Yankees, “Don’t worry they are not Red Sox fans,” according to the apartment-hunter, Dr. Gabrielle Gold-von Simson.
To which Tynan replied, “I don’t care about that, as long as they are not Jewish,” Gabrielle Gold-von Simson told NBC New York.
“Why is that?” asked a flabbergasted Gold-von Simson of the singer.
And Tynan responded that Jewish ladies had been looking at the apartment before and they were “scary,” according to Gold-von Simson.
The singer now claims he was joking, but the good doctor didn’t see it that way.
“I didn’t know him at all so how could I take it as a joke,” said Gold-von Simson.
The Yankees cancelled his scheduled Friday night appearance during Game 1 of the League Championship Series.
Tynan, of course, says he’s no anti-Semite. I think we need a formula for dealing with these events:
T + S ÷ P + A = R
Let T be the offender’s track record and S stand for the seriousness of the remark, divided by P (private or public nature of offense) plus quickness and seeming sincerity of the Apology, equal the public Rebuke.
If the offender has given no previous reason to suspect him/her of anti-Semitism or intolerance, if the remark is made in a private setting, and the offender is quick to apologize without waffling, everyone involved should let it go.
It sounds like Tynan is no Mel Gibson, his apology was unequivocal, and the remark was said in private. As for the content of the remark, is it possible (stay with me here) that Tynan was joking about a certain New York “type” — think Mike Meyer’s Coffee Tawk character? Stereotypes always have the potential to offend, but I think there is a difference between an ethnic joke that traffics in classic racial or religious tropes and one that just might be a ham-fisted acknowledgement of the kinds of stereotypes we all notice on a daily basis.
UPDATE: The Times version of the story leaves out the part about Jewish ladies being “scary.” That makes Tynan sound worse than he did.