A star rabbi’s NJ roots
Thursday, June 24th, 2010The Los Angeles Jewish Journal profiles NJ-bred Rabbi Sharon Brous, founder of a popular L.A. “community” (don’t call it a synagogue) with a “national reputation for tapping into a rich vein of Jewish life, attracting everyone from the unaffiliated to lifelong super-Jews.”
When the NJJN profiled her in 2008, we obviously put more focus on her NJ roots (she grew up in Livingston and Short Hills) — which, she suggested, demonstrated precisely the kind of synagogue Judaism a younger generation is not interested in:
“In the 1950s, when Jews were not allowed to join country clubs, they needed a place to come together where they wouldn’t be alienated and wouldn’t be the ‘other.’ Because of the guilt they felt, and their being rooted in the sense of otherness from Christian America, the synagogue really spoke to my parents’ generation,” she explained.
But guilt and separateness are no longer motivating factors for belonging, she said.
“All doors are open to Jews in this country. We don’t need a Jewish country club. We can go to film screenings, and Jewish collectives. We have no need to be in an exclusively Jewish community,” she said.
Instead, she suggests, we ought to be looking “at what’s happening in this country and what people want to be part of.” There’s a desperate thirst for meaning, involvement, and action, she explained.
Arriving at Columbia University, Brous considered herself profoundly connected to Judaism, but suddenly discovered she was “functionally illiterate” in ritual and other aspects of Jewish life.
A spiritual journey brought her to [Manhattan's] B’nai Jeshurun, and ultimately to rabbinical school at JTS. She was ordained in 2001.
She went on to serve on the faculty of REBOOT, a Jewish think tank that encourages new ideas in Jewish community building. “I learned from this that even the best synagogues were not giving points of access for people really searching for meaning,” she said.
IKAR is not a synagogue, she will tell you, but a community. They don’t have a building, and she worries about getting too connected to a particular space.
“No matter how intensive our Torah shiur [class] is, many people won’t even look to a synagogue for spiritual inspiration,” she said.

JustASC is written by Andrew Silow-Carroll, Editor-in-Chief of the 